Have you considered sensual massage? It will turn your partner into a pool of bliss, which she will remember and appreciate for days to follow. Whether it is your first time giving a sensual massage or you want to polish your skills, these tips are for you. Continue reading to know how to give your
Have you considered sensual massage? It will turn your partner into a pool of bliss, which she will remember and appreciate for days to follow. Whether it is your first time giving a sensual massage or you want to polish your skills, these tips are for you. Continue reading to know how to give your woman the best sensual massage ever!
A sensual massage, for a woman, is all about being appreciated and spoiled. It makes her feel nurtured, honored, loved, and turned on, all at the same time. Thus, the atmosphere plays a significant role in the overall experience. For being able to relax internally, the outer atmosphere has to cater to the following:
Make sure that you use a pure, natural oil. You will probably use it on and inside the body. Pour the required amount in a bowl and keep it near the bed. You can always add a couple of drops of any essential oil (such as tea tree or lavender) to the bowl to take the aroma one step further. More importantly, make sure that the oil is just warm enough for it to feel comfortable and soothing on the skin. If it is slightly warmer than room temperature or even less, warm it up between your palms before applying it. You do not want to give a massage with cold oil.
Remember that a good massage does not start firm but builds up to it. It would help if you started with some gentle touches, such as stroking your partner’s skin. You can run your fingers down her back and gently rub massage oil on her. Remember, starting slow and using light touches will help your partner ease into the right mindset. She will be able to relax and prepare herself for the full treatment that you will be giving her. The point of a sensual massage is not therapeutic, but it should be physically relaxing. Hence, you will have to relieve some of the tension built up in the muscles by really working at them. Sticking to light touches the entire time will indeed feel good, but your partner will only get the deep physical relaxation if you firmly knead her muscles.
During the massage, communicate with your partner. Ask her if the pressure is okay and if she would like any changes. Speaking with her can help you know if you should focus more on specific areas that she wants you to. At the same time, remember that most women have a part of their body that they feel self-conscious about. So, there is a good chance she might not be super comfortable with you touching it. Ask her if there’s anywhere she does not want to be massaged. Stay mindful of what does not make her feel comfortable and respect her wishes. Apart from boosting her satisfaction, this will also help you learn what works and make you feel more confident that she is having a good time.
You will probably massage your partner’s backside, inner thighs, or hips through the sensual massage. However, make sure that you do not start there; work your way up to it. Make her feel fully relaxed before you give that kind of stimulation. Take your time and don’t make it seem like you are in a hurry. If she wants you to, you will be rubbing her intimate parts sooner or later. If your sensual massage goes well and makes your partner feel good, it will lead to sex, but you should transition to it in a way that feels smooth. Ideally, you should go about it so smoothly that it blurs the line between the massage and the sexual stimulation. Before you go ahead and get intimate, make sure that you get a clear signal that she is ready for sex. That could be verbal as well, but if you know her well, you are likely to learn from her breaths and body language.
Sensual massages are a great way to pamper your partner and make her feel good. They build a greater level of intimacy in your relationship that’s beyond the physical aspect. We hope that these tips come in handy the next time you use those hands to please your woman with a sensual massage.